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|Posted by mercycounseling on November 26, 2019 at 7:05 AM||comments (2)|
FROM ADVENT TO EASTER AND BEYOND: THE GOLDEN CORD THAT BINDS IN ONE
For many of us, the Christmas and Easter seasons are separate and distinct occasions. Each season has its own colors, flavors, and traditions. Biblically speaking, however, they represent the beginning and ending of a very brief sojourn on earth of Jesus Christ, the Son of God, our Savior. Between the two seasons is a longer pe...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on November 17, 2019 at 7:30 AM||comments (0)|
HAPPY (FRENETIC) HOLIDAYS!
The frenetic season is upon us—that time of year between Halloween and New Year’s Day. Some people love it, and some people dread it. Everybody feels the stress. What drives the insanity?
We place tons of expectations on ourselves and we fantasize (obsess) over what we believe are the expectations of others for our holiday “performan...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on November 15, 2019 at 8:05 AM||comments (0)|
SETTING UP YOUR DAY FOR SUCCESS
We humans generally seem to have a low tolerance for the inevitable valleys, challenges, and changes of life. Don’t you agree? Our lives can be 98 percent good, but we zero in a laser-like focus on the 2% not-so-good. That’s because the human brain is wired to look for danger. While this wiring may seem to be hopelessly fixed, neuroscience has shown ...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on November 5, 2019 at 9:30 AM||comments (0)|
HOW TO KNOW THE WILL OF GOD FOR YOU
Some years ago, a young Christian man came to counseling because he was trying to discern the will of God about whether he should marry a young woman with whom he was in love. His angst over the matter was truly gut-wrenching. The woman in question was also a Christian. They were both leaders in many activities of their church, very devoted to Jesus, and they were afraid to do the wrong thing. They wanted to know for sure if it w...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on November 4, 2019 at 8:10 AM||comments (0)|
DEAR CHRISTIAN PARENTS:
Do you love Jesus? Do you teach your children to love Jesus?
I’ve heard it said that we are always just one generation away from Christianity disappearing from the earth. Thank God that can never be true! The Lord has promised the “the gates of hell” will never prevail against the church (Matthew 16:18.
Even so, many Christian...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on July 9, 2019 at 7:15 AM||comments (0)|
The Prickliest Topic in Christianity
Part One: Than Came Grace
It came to me in the still of early morning darkness, as I roused from sleep. A question floated into my consciousness, a gentle whisper: Why are you willing to spend $20 on lunch with a friend, but you only put $10 in the offering plate at the church you are visiting? As I mused on this, I didn’t feel shamed or guilty, but I reali...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on July 6, 2019 at 8:55 AM||comments (0)|
Stressing Out Doesn’t Make You a Bad Christian!
We’ve all been there. Feeling so stressed that we are practically paralyzed. Blowing our cork over things that normally wouldn’t merit much attention. Not sleeping. Rushing around. Not eating right. Crying jags. Wanting to run away or simply hide under the covers and not come out.
As Christians, this often leads to feelings of failure...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on January 11, 2019 at 9:20 AM||comments (0)|
IS YOUR MARRIAGE A COMPETITION?
Susan A. Haberkorn
NCCA Licensed Clinical Pastoral Counselor
Americans love a good competition. In fact, it seems to be central to our corporate identity. We compete for the best deals, for jobs, for the glamor of the spotlight. We root for our favorite individual and team athletes. We compete at home, at work, at school, and at play. Even our economy is based on competition.
The good promise of competition is h...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on December 16, 2018 at 12:30 AM||comments (0)|
Immune Health and Digestion 101: Ya Gotta Chew, and Ya Gotta Poo
by Susan A. Haberkorn, Ph.D., NHP
That’s right, friends; I did say poo. About 70-80 percent of your immune system operates between your lips and your anus. Your health, in large measure, depends on the trillions of beneficial bacteria that live in your alimentary canal, aka, digestive tract. The alimentary canal includes the mouth, p...Read Full Post »
|Posted by mercycounseling on October 22, 2018 at 1:25 PM||comments (0)|
Managing Your Emotions
According to the Collins online dictionary, “An emotion is a feeling such as happiness, love, fear, anger, or hatred, which can be caused by the situation that you are in or the people you are with. They are the part of a person's character that consists of their feelings, as opposed to their thoughts.”
Emotions are a way in which our unconscious mind interprets the wor...Read Full Post »